This comment is something going through my head immediately after posting my last post on anger. The inner voice is also saying “what good is it going to do you hanging onto all of these angry things oh and by the way its almost 12 now and a sunny day and you haven’t walked the dog!” Welcome to my inner head process peeps!
There is still a powerful inner voice telling me that somehow being angry, remaining angry and setting boundaries with hurtful people shows I am not yet spiritually developed enough to have got beyond ‘negative ego”. But my question is this : “Don’t we need an ego sometimes to differentiate what is helpful and what is hurtful for both of us?” Do we have to be spiritually advanced enough to ‘let all the pain go?’
Just some further questions and yes there is still a lot of day left to get out there and walk the dog in the sunshine. And no one will die if I don’t. 🙂